Most of my friends are off to LA

Now that senior week and graduation is over, I have finally recovered enough to write a little something and begin my summer weekly blogging. Senior week was a blast, and I finally built a connection with Sweetwater I never really had throughout the years. My parents were in town and thus, I didn’t get the chance to spend as much time with my fellow classmates as I wanted but I definitely made up for it at night. 

Senior week is special, not because we have no more obligations for classes, not because we are celebrating our four years of college but because we all feel that joy and excitement no one else knows about. Sure, everyone congratulates you and perhaps even buys you a drink, but the feeling of finally being done, ready to move on to the next stage of life, is something only felt at that certain time. It is also special because we all get to drink, party at the same place, mostly Sweetwater. There is a certain magical bond that forms whether you were friends, acquaintances or enemies the last few years. 

Although I was glistening in the drinking and fun of the week, there was that sad feeling at the back of my mind that never left. As soon as the week was over, we would all go our separate ways and say goodbye. Further yet, most of them are going to be in LA. I guess that’s what happens when all my friends are Film, Visual Media Arts students. Don’t get me wrong, when I say bye; I don’t mean goodbyes, only “see you soon”. I trust that I will see each and everyone of them in the future, and we’ll smile, laugh and reminisce on our college days. 

Sometimes I even wonder whether I want to live in LA to be with all my friends. If you know me well enough, you know that I meet new friends at the blink of an eye but this time is different, many of my closest friends whom I know would throw parties after parties for me if they knew I was coming. Again, if you knew me, you also know I’m not a fan of LA. Growing up in a city with public transportation, having to drive and sit in traffic everywhere I go is not my ideal place to live but it has almost become a challenge. 

I’ve always lived in cities I adored, I’ve always made sure I was comfortable wherever I lived so living in LA even for a month or two will be a true test of my nomad adaptation skills.

After all, life is more interesting when you seek to challenge yourself. 

Starting Now

As I was reading article after article on Thought Catalog, I remembered my goal to start blogging on a more regular basis as soon as school was finished so here I am, re-starting my blogging life. 

I’m not entirely sure what I am going to be writing about yet, it’s going to take research, take time to write something worth reading for others but I do hope this will help me keep and/or improve further my writing skills. 

Exactly a week until my Graduation Commencement Day. Never take time for granted, it creeps into your life a lot quicker than you think. It’s hard to believe I have been in college for the last four years, but here I am, done with school, done with classes and ready to be a real adult.

Conversation starters these days with anyone begins with “Congrats! Are you scared? Sad? Nervous?” I do get a little anxious every time I think of the future, or what I’m going to do, where God is going to lead me, and how I’m going to earn enough money to support the life style I live currently. But at this moment in time, no, I’m not scared, I’m not nervous. All I am is excited. 

I am really excited to live life with my brother, live life in Boston for another year while not being a student, to explore more of the city and surrounding States (if I get the chance), and excited for what life will bring me. I’m not scared and nervous because I know that whatever I end up doing, I’m going to like it. I’m going to make sure that my life will consist of everything and everyone I care about. 

So the next time you get scared, just remember, the future is what you make of it. So don’t worry, just put your heart in it and you’ll find joy in whatever you’re doing. Just because we’re done with school doesn’t mean we stop learning. I’m excited to keep reading and studying the things I enjoy during my down time. 

If you need to, force yourself to put a smile on your face and you will subconsciously feel happier and find a genuine smile within you. Trust me, it works. 

 

And just like that, it comes to an end

And just like that, it comes to an end

My captain Ben and I leading my team in the butterfly stretch during the 6th annual Quidditch World Cup in Kissimmee, Florida. What a brilliant weekend of heat, humidity, and meeting people from all over the world who bond through this silly game. Also check out our baller jerseys from Quiyk!

Family is like …

Family is like legos… one piece of lego is nothing, it’s not valuable. You need all the pieces of legos together to become something big

For one of my assignments in my family communication class, we had to interview two people we consider to be in our family. Thus, I decided to interview my brother and my parents. My parents can be considered one person anyways, sort of. 

They were asked to describe their family in a metaphor. If you get the chance to, ask your family and friends the same question, the amount of creative answers you will receive will blow your mind. After pondering a few minutes, my brother said the above. Family is like legos. That was definitely not what I had in mind but it’s brilliant. 

When we’re little kids playing with legos or building blocks, we had to try and figure out the pieces, put them together to make something big and not as easily breakable. That’s my family. We built our strength around each other so that when we are faced with conflicts, we have the defense system to know that we are built for whatever is trying to tear us apart. We’re a family, we stick together and only thus can we begin to rule the world. 

Only appropriate to Meet in Massachusetts

As each day passes and I’m getting closer and closer to graduation, decisions have to be made in regards to post-grad plans. Almost every person I talk to asks the question, “so what are you doing next year?” To be fair, I’m asking others the same question. It’s just one of those things you end up asking.

So here it is, I have no job or internship secured yet but I do have one thing figured out: I will be staying in Boston. (WOOHOOOO…. granted I get my OPT approval to stay in the US)

“Boston, Boston, a better kind of love.
Boston, Boston, it’s all I’m dreaming of.”

As much as I dislike the winter, I’m excited to start a new chapter of my life in Boston. Excited for the new experiences in the job world, and exploring more of Mass (Cambridge & Somerville specifically)

If you haven’t already yet, please take a few minutes to listen to the video above. My friend Andrew has been working really hard to break into the music scene here and just recently released his new album “My Red Goodbye” and single “Meet in Massachusetts”. Check out his songs, download his music on itunes (http://bit.ly/120SSr4) and give him a baller review!

http://www.andrewhornmusic.com
http://www.facebook.com/andrewhornmusic

If you live in Boston/MA, please come check out his shows the next few weeks.

3/19-Lansdowne Pub 8:30-11:30pm
3/29- The Middle East Upstairs 8-9pm
4/05- The Precinct 8pm
4/06- Porters on Portland

So, let’s Meet In Massachusetts.

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